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Daniel Saunders's avatar

This is why I'm opposed to segulot generally. Likewise, to any attempt to turn mitzvot into transactions, "Do mitzvah X for reward Y," or, more subtly (and probably more controversially), the idea that you can say, "May my zechut from this mitzvah go to person X" (which I don't think actually "works," but even if it did, I would be opposed). We don't get to make those decisions and should not be seeing our relationship with HaShem that way.

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Micha Berger's avatar

So the practice is like the apple-in-honey and other foods on Rosh haShanah night. The Apter Rebbe said similarly in the earliest documentation of the custom.

Thus the problem is not with shlissel challah but with the attitude that "avodas Hashem" isn't about our service for or worship of the Creator, but about getting Him to serve us.

Queue my usual speach about Will to Give vs Will to Take, which R Dessler described as the essential focal point of free will. There was a shift in the 20th century from wanting to be "egrlicher Yidn" to thinking of ourselves as "frum", which as R Wolbe writes, is the instinct for obtaining personal holiness. This reflects our generation's focus on the Will to Take and how it is poluting even our religiosity.

(Perhaps one could say it would have spread as far as it did without the segulah motive. I suspect the main motivator of the spread might simply be that women baking challah enjoy making a shape as entertainment. Or just the desire for variety in life gives us reason to want another special Shabbos.)

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